30 Holiday Gifts Even “Difficult” People Will Love

30 Holiday Gifts Even “Difficult” People Will Love

For the most part, we actually enjoy buying gifts. As professional shoppers, we delight in finding that one trinket that’s going to surprise our loved ones, but there are always outliers in this shopping scenario — the people that leave us hemming, hawing, and endlessly scrolling to find the just-right thing that will satisfy their highly-exacting tastes. The kind-of-difficult ones.

You know the type: if you’re going to get this person a sweater, you can’t get them just any sweater; it has to be ethically sourced, top-of-the-line cashmere. A simple glassware set just won’t do, either; it has to be design snob-approved. Well: look no further, harried shopper. Because when it comes to those hard-to-please folks in your life, we’ve got you (and them) covered. Ahead, find 30 gifts for difficult people that will actually pass muster with your pickiest pals.

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Flight 001 4-in-1 Adapter

International travel is (safely) coming back, so gift your globe-trotting person this nifty 4-in-1 adapter for their imminent far-flung journey.

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Flight 001 4-In-1 Travel Adapter, $, available at Amazon

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Loungewear

We’re pretty evangelical about Quince’s highly competitive prices and top-notch quality — and their cashmere separates are vetted reader faves. If you know someone who deserves a treat this holiday, they’ll love a pair of luxurious joggers or a super-soft-sweater.

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Quince Mongolian Cashmere Sweatpants, $, available at Quince

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crew, $, available at Quince—PAID—

Even the most hard-to-please giftee will love this shoe’s sleek, futuristic design — made even better with Responsive Boost cushioning that returns energy.

Adidas NMD_R1 V2 Sneaker, $, available at Adidas

OFFHOURS x West Elm Homecoat

It’s a robe-meets-blanket situation with this supremely luxurious contraption called the Homecoat.

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OFFHOURS x West Elm Homecoat, $, available at West Elm

Airbnb Gift Card

Take care of your loved one’s lodging plans for whenever they plan their next getaway.

Airbnb Gift Card, starting at $50, available at Airbnb.

Airbnb Gift Card, $, available at Airbnb

July Carry-On Light

Touted as “The lightest double-wheel suitcase in the world,” this carry-on from Aussie travel brand July allows you to move easily without your luggage weighing you down.

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July Carry On Light, $, available at July

Warby Parker Gift Card

Up the sophistication factor and let your giftee pick out a cool pair of specs to update their lewk. A Warby Parker e-gift card or IRL gift card, complete with a festive box that doubles as eyeglasses storage make a fool-proof gift.

Warby Parker Gift Card, starting at $50, available at Warby Parker.

Mr. Coffee Mug Warmer

An obvious but highly functional accessory: a mug-size warmer to keep that brew pipin’ hot all day long. (Because you know they’ll nurse cup after cup for hours.)

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Mr. Coffee Mug Warmer, $, available at Amazon

Baggu Set of 3 Wine Bags

Gift a pack of these cleverly designed reusable wine bags just in time for the winter dinner parties that require you to BYOB.

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Baggu Wine Baggu Set of 3, $, available at Baggu

Bearaby Tree Napper

For the person who needs to stay calm (and carry on): A beautifully woven weighted blanket in a soothing shade of turmeric.

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Bearaby Tree Napper, $, available at Bearaby

Brooklinen Mulberry Silk Pillowcase

Not only is sleeping on a silk pillowcase very luxe, but the benefits also abound! It protects the hair from wear and tear; plus it’s naturally cooling in the summertime and insulating in the wintertime.

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Brooklinen Mulberry Silk Pillowcase, $, available at Brooklinen

The Sill Digital Gift Card

It’s true what The Sill says: Plants make people happy. But, because you can never be sure of how attentive someone is going to be, send a card so your giftee can personally pick the green friend that suits their lifestyle.

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The Sill Digital Gift Card, $, available at The Sill

Stine Goya Multicolor Leile Padded Mittens

Because even difficult people need something to keep their hands warm.


Stine Goya Multicolor Leile Padded Mittens, $, available at SSENSE

iHome Portable Karaoke Machine

All the world’s a stage when you gift this portable karaoke machine. Guaranteed to be the life of the party!

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iHome Portable Karaoke Machine, $, available at Walmart

Chillhouse Chill Tips Reusable Press-On Manicure Kit

A perfect stocking stuffer for the person who loves getting their nails done in a pinch.

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Chillhouse Chill Tips Reusable Press-On Manicure Kit, $, available at Free People

Fredericks and Mae Playing Cards

A deck of cards is an essential home item no one ever thinks to buy — until the urge to play cards hits. Plus, look at how beautiful this stack is!

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Fredericks and Mae Playing Cards, $, available at Coming Soon

ILIKEPAR Cereal Bowl with Metal Spoon Scented Candle

Yes, this is an actual candle that legitimately smells like cereal! And, when you’re done burning it, you can even wipe the bowl and spoon clean and use them to eat … actual cereal.

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ILIKEPAR Cereal Bowl with Metal Spoon Scented Candle, $, available at Amazon

Chen Chen And Kai Williams Mirror Mask

Gifting mirrors is fun because it’s usually unexpected but always practical —  but no ordinary mirror will do for your picky giftee. These emotionally available mirrors can be purchased as a set of three, or individually for $90 each.

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Chen Chen And Kai Williams Mirror Mask, $, available at Areaware

One Stripe Chai At Home Blends Collection – Chai + Turmeric

Coffee lovers are easy to shop for — it’s the tea drinkers that really stymie us. And, this at-home DIY set is for chai babes.

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One Stripe Chai At Home Blends Collection – Chai + Turmeric, $, available at One Stripe Chai

Anthropologie Raccoon Table Lamp

Raccoons get a bad rap — unless they’re handing you a lightbulb.

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Anthropologie Raccoon Table Lamp, $, available at Anthropologie

Hasegawa Lucano Stepstool 2 Step

I don’t know about you, but I live for a chic step ladder. Trust me — if you gift this, it will get used all the time.

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Hasegawa Lucano Stepstool 2 Step, $, available at Pattern

Dyson Outsize Absolute+ Vacuum 

Ask anyone who has a Dyson if it’s the best thing on earth and they’ll absolutely say yes.

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Dyson Dyson Outsize Absolute+ vacuum (Gold), $, available at Dyson

HOSIGCO “Take A Bite” Socks

The nice thing about difficult people is that they usually know they’re difficult — which means you can always lean into silliness and get them wearing something that’ll make them laugh.

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HOSIGCO “Take A Bite” Socks, $, available at Amazon

Meer Portable Mini Projector

This portable gizmo makes it easy for any movie lover to bring the joy of cinema with them wherever they go.

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Meer Portable Mini Projector, $, available at Amazon

LevysFriends 2022 Cat Calendar

Even if you’re not a cat person, you cannot deny the cuteness of the fluffy felines that fill the pages within.

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LevysFriends 2022 Cat Calendar, $, available at Etsy

NEWGEM Japanese Linen Cross Back Apron

Quite possibly the chicest kitchen (or garden) apron on the market — and it’s less than $20!

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NEWGEM Japanese Linen Cross Back Apron, $, available at Amazon

Blundstone BL587 Classic 550 Chelsea Boot

It’s the boot that’s meant to last a lifetime. Which means that it’s also the gift of a lifetime.

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Blundstone BL587 Classic 550 Chelsea Boot, $, available at Zappos

que 20oz Collapsible Water Bottle

Even the most difficult person will need to stay hydrated. This super light, super squishy water bottle is especially handy for travel.

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que 20oz Collapsible Water Bottle, $, available at Amazon

Nutribullet Magic Bullet Blender

This compact single-serving smoothie/dip/baby puree maker will make food prep a breeze.

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Nutribullet magic bullet® Blender, $, available at NutriBullet

Bormioli Rocco Stackable Wine Glasses

Help them imbibe in style (at home) with the gift of chic and easily stored wine glasses.

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Bormioli Rocco Stackable Wine Glasses, $, available at Food52

Framebridge The Piccolo: 7×7 Stand-Up Frame

A gift that always hits the nail is a framed photo of a very special moment. My tip: Find your gift recipient’s best Instagram photo (no matter how off-the-cuff or casual it may be), upload it to Framebridge, and have it turned into a piece of tangible art.

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Framebridge The Piccolo: 7×7 Stand-Up Frame, $, available at Framebridge

Baby Yoda Guitar Pick

The Val-pal: Your guitar-playing, science fiction-reading hookup

Why They’ll Love It: Is your boo … picky?! (Guffaw! Sorry, had to.) If you want to wow the “Star Wars”-loving troubadour in your life for the low, low price of $4.49, you can end your search now.

RockNRollNook Baby Yoda Guitar Pick, $, available at Etsy

The Philosopher’s Stoneground Sprouted Almond Butter

The Val-pal: Your crunchy (guffaw!) childhood bestie

Why They’ll Love It: If your Valentine is particular about what they’ll put on their bodies — organic cotton only, please! — they’re probably equally picky about what they put in their bodies. Therefore, we suggest a tried and true (and sustainably made) snack from Patagonia Provisions, the food-purveying arm of the renowned outdoor retailer. Everything in their inventory is just as low-impact as the brand’s clothing — but luckily, these goods are one-size-fits-all. Our pick: this nut butter made from sprouted almonds. (Ooo la la.)

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The Philosopher’s Stoneground Sprouted Almond Butter (Crunchy), $, available at Patagonia Provisions

Mavogel Modal Sleep Mask

The Val-pal: Your best friend (and former roommate), who’s still living in that group house

Why They’ll Love It: Your thrifty bestie is saving her pennies by remaining in your (affordable) former multi-roommate pad — but she’s really ready to live alone. Help her get through these final months of dealing with rowdy flat-mates with this top-rated, super-soft weighted sleep mask.

Mavogel Modal Eye Mask, $, available at Amazon

Sugar Momma Cookie Co. Lucky Charm Hot Chocolate Bomb

The Val-pal: Your work wife (and former 3 PM pain au chocolat partner-in-crime)

Why they’ll love it: A heated debate sprung up during a recent team meeting regarding the merits of flavored hot chocolate bombs — some of were waving the banana cream pie flag; others were proponents of a dairy-free option; others still advocated for the ultimate childhood treat: a bomb laced with Lucky Charms “marshmallows.” (Me.) Luckily, no matter the sugar preferences of the Valentine in question, there is a hot chocolate bomb that will help your work wife reminisce about your shared late-afternoon bakery pick-me-ups at the office.

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Sugar Momma Cookie Co. Lucky Charm Hot Chocolate Bomb, $, available at Etsy

Mad Libs Dear Valentine Letters

The Val-pal(s): Your former brunch squad-turned-far flung friend group

Why They’ll Love It: Harness your silliest inner child with a time-honored goofy game of wordsmithing. You can use this Zoom-compatible activity for any remote February 14th celebrations with your gang, and then have a tangible memento to drop in the mail.

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Mad Libs Dear Valentine Letters, $, available at Amazon

LiBa Massage Hook

The Val-pal: The over-worked, over-hunched friend who’s quarantining solo

Why They’ll Love It: Massages make great gifts, whether it’s a visit to a professional spa or a casual foot or back rub delivered by your boo. However, with the possibility that social distancing prevents both of these things from happening, we’re going to suggest the next best thing: this fanatically-reviewed massage cane, which enables anyone to give themselves a sublime pressure-point massage and target hard-to-reach places.

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LiBa Massage Hook, $, available at Amazon

Masha Apparel Tie Dye Bamboo Socks

The Val-pal: Your loungewear-connoisseur roommate

Why They’ll Love It: We’ve seen a lot of tie-dye in the past 12 months, and in our professional opinion, the gradient and color distribution on this pair of socks are of expert origin. Even better, they’re made from bamboo — a renewable fiber that’s naturally absorbent and sweat-wicking. Your eternally sweats-clad roomie will definitely approve.

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Masha Apparel Tie Dye Bamboo Socks, $, available at Amazon

FantasyBear “Star Wars” Candy Molds

The Val-pal: Your sweet-toothed spouse

Why They’ll Love It: Sure, the Whitman’s or See’s sampler is a crowd-pleaser, but why not make your chocolate gift interactive this year? We love the idea of DIY-ing some sweet treats that align wsith your partner’s passions, whether they’re a Star Wars superfan or a connoisseur of all things herbal. Simply browse for a mold that aligns with your belief system, add some melting chocolate to cart, and voilà! Edible R2D2.

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FantasyBear “Star Wars” Candy Molds, $, available at Amazon

Wilton Candy Melts, $, available at Amazon

Dash My Pint Ice Cream Maker

The Val-pal: Your sweet-toothed spouse, who really enjoyed their chocolate Darth Vader and now wants to DIY other desserts

Why They’ll Love It: Chocolate-making was such a hit that you’re looking for something else you can whip up at home. Enter this pint-sized, affordably-priced ice cream maker — it will allow your sweetheart to produce single servings of sorbet or gelato on a whim.

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Dash My Pint Ice Cream Maker, $, available at Bed Bath & Beyond

Alder New York Cleansing Facial Brush

The Val-pal: Your Irish Spring-devotee partner

Why They’ll Love It: Alder is a queer- and woman-owned indie skincare imprint that makes a range of beautifully designed, unisex products for all skin types. This small-but-mighty scrubber is equipped with over one million (!) nylon bristles to stimulate the dermis, making that AM face-wash feel, well, one million times more luxurious than it normally does. A sweet and thoughtful gift for anyone who could use a cleansing boost — even the most low-maintenance bar-soap user.

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Alder New York Cleansing Facial Brush, $, available at Alder New York

This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray

The Val-pal: Your insomniac new-mom friend

Why They’ll Love It: They’ve always been a troubled sleeper, and with a newborn at home, it hasn’t gotten any easier. Help them unwind with this ahhh-inducing pillow spray — it contains a blend of lavender, vetiver, and chamomile oils, all of which promote relaxation.

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This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray, $, available at Anthropologie

Boomie Custom Handmade Recipe Cards

The Val-pal: Your mom, whose hand-written bolognese recipe you reference almost weekly

Why They’ll Love It: Your mom still has the same recipe box that she’s had since you were a kid, and when a new dish enters her repertoire, she dutifully jots it down. Help her maintain this tradition with some fresh handmade paper from artisan-goods website GlobeIn.

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Boomie Custom Handmade Recipe Cards, $, available at GlobeIn

Snow Peak Wabuki Collapsible Chopsticks

The Val-pal: Your great-outdoors-loving partner

Why They’ll Love It: For gear enthusiasts, it doesn’t get much better than Snow Peak — the Japanese brand is responsible for some of the best quality and most elevated design on the outdoor market. We love their top-rated folding chopsticks as a gift for anyone who loves the great outdoors (or just noodles) — crafted from bamboo and stainless steel, the utensils’ ingenious design enables them to collapse into a 4.5-inch pouch for seamless transport.

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Snow Peak Wabuki Chopsticks, $, available at REI

Homesick Candles Date Night

The Val-pal: Your co-parent

Why They’ll Love It: Before you became parents, date night was a pretty regular thing for you and your boo, whether it was burgers at your local watering hole or a rarefied omakase meal where you’d waited months for a reservation. Now, most nights are reserved for collapsing into bed at 9 PM, but you can still channel those cherished romantic evenings of yore with Homesick Candle’s fig and cashmere-scented votive. (The cheeky-burner brand will even inscribe a custom message if you click the “Make It Personal” button when you add to cart.)

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Homesick Candles Date Night, $, available at Homesick Candles

Haus Citrus Flower Apertif

The Val-pal: Your hostess-with-the-mostess mixologist buddy

Why They’ll Love It: Your bestie who used to love throwing dinner parties is suffering from a serious lack of stimuli these days. Get their creative juices flowing again with an additive-free aperitif made with herbs, fruits, and botanicals for maximum slow-sipping enjoyment.

Haus Citrus Flower Apertif, $, available at Haus

Jewellry by AMMA Sterling Silver Initial Necklace

The Val-pal: Your highly sentimental, very minimal sister

Why They’ll Love It: When in doubt, call upon a forever crowd-pleaser — even the most stylishly restrained among us can’t resist the siren call of a dainty personalized necklace.

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Jewellry by AMMA Sterling Silver Initial Necklace, $, available at Etsy

Hey Dewy Portable Facial Humidifier

The Val-pal: your beauty gadget-curious sister

Why they’ll love it: Your formerly sunscreen-skipping older sister has a renewed interest in her beauty rountine of late, and is suddenly experimenting with skincare supplements and plant-based serums. Wow her with Hey Dewy’s pint-sized, portable, USB-chargeable humidifier; perfect for refreshing the complexion midday (or really anytime of day).

Hey Dewy Hey Dewy Portable Facial Humidifier, $, available at Nordstrom

Golde Cacao Turmeric Superfood Latte Kit

The Giftee: Your gut health-conscious best friend

The Rationale: She’s beginning to dip her toes into the waters of clean eating, eschewing fast-food for the acai-forward rainbow bowls that she spotted on Instagram. She’ll appreciate the gift of this body-warming turmeric latte blend.

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Golde Cacao Turmeric Superfood Latte, $, available at Golde

Felicia Liang New York City Chinatown Poster

The Val-pal: Your weekly dim sum partner

Why They’ll Love It: While your standing Sunday dim sum date is on hold at the moment, you can still cherish the memories of endless cups of oolong tea with this poster from New York artist Felicia Liang. (A portion of proceeds from the poster will go to Welcome to Chinatown’s Longevity Fund, for local-business relief.)

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Felicia Liang New York City Chinatown Poster, $, available at Etsy

Leesa Seat Cushion

The Val-pal: Your live-in lover, who is slowly destroying their back in that hard wooden chair

Why They’ll Love It: There are a handful of products — face masks, hand sanitizer, office chairs — that will go down in 2020/2021 history as indispensable items. Another must-have on this list? The butt pillow — perfect for helping uncomfy home chairs achieve WFH-ready comfort levels. If your partner is still laptopping away in a chair that’s not intended for prime time, they’ll really feel pampered when they sink their cheeks into Leesa’s memory-foam cushion.

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Leesa Seat Cushion, $, available at West Elm

Olympia Provisions Salami Bouquet

The Val-pal: Your extreme-foodie friend

Why They’ll Love It: Think this “bouquet” of salami is ridiculous? Silly as it may seem to deliver cured meat in the form of a fresh-flower bunch, this bundle is bound to send the food snob in your life into paroxysms of joy. Portland’s Olympia Provisions is renowned for its handmade, antibiotic-free charcuterie, which is produced locally in Oregon’s first USDA-approved salumeria. 

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Olympia Provisions Salami Bouquet, $, available at Food52

Jeremy Ayers Pottery Friendship Mugs (Set of Two)

The Val-pal: Your mom, who was kind enough to let you move home last March

Why They’ll Love It: Being roommates with your parents wasn’t easy when you were a teenager, and surprise surprise, not much has changed. However, even though it hasn’t been a picnic, your mom has kinda been your rock in 2020. Show her some love this Valentine’s Day with a handmade mug set that you can both enjoy.

Jeremy Ayers Pottery Handmade Friendship Mugs (Set of 2), $, available at Food52

Urban Flowers Chicago Tied Bouquet of Mixed Roses

The Val-pal: Your by-the-book mother-in-law

Why They’ll Love It: Thanks to a rustic presentation, unexpected sprigs of greenery, and a beautiful mix of Valentine’s Day-approved roses, this simple bouquet satisfies both your alterna-teen tendencies and your mother-in-law’s traditional taste in gifts.

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Urban Flowers Chicago Tied Bouquet of Mixed Roses, $, available at Floom

Ecoflax Linen Fitted Sheet

The Val-pal: Your sweaty bed-mate

Why They’ll Love It: OK, we know it’s a little spendy, but linen bedding is so luxurious, we can’t resist the opportunity to splurge on it. Aside from being a renewable and biodegradable material that’s super eco-friendly, linen is strong, antibacterial, and naturally cooling. On a holiday that’s all about getting into bed, why not make the boudoir extra soigné with this super-fiber? 

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Ecoflax Linen Linen Fitted Sheet, $, available at Etsy

Click and Grow Smart Garden

The Val-pal: Your wannabe-green thumb boyfriend

Why They’ll Love It: Poor dude. He tries so hard to be a plant lady, but it’s just not going to happen. (For, uh, several reasons.) However, this countertop herb garden won’t be deterred by his light-challenged basement cave — it self-waters and has built-in lights to ensure healthy and happy greenery.

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Click and Grow Smart Garden, $, available at Click and Grow

Fujifilm Mini Link Smartphone Printer

The Val-pal: Your vintage-obsessed Netflix-and-chill companion

Why They’ll Love It: They tote their film camera everywhere they go, but they still can’t capture every waking moment with their point-and-shoot. Give them the ability to fudge a filmic moment with a printer that will turn their digital shots into sepia-toned masterpieces.

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Fujifilm Mini Link Smartphone Printer, $, available at Urban Outfitters

Jessica Sennett Cheese Grotto

The Val-pal: Your home-cook partner who, over the course of 2020, has acquired literally every kitchen gadget under the sun (except for a cheese grotto)

Why They’ll Love It: A tiny had-carved box just for storing cheese?! Now we’ve seen everything! In all seriousness, our jaws hit the floor when we laid our fromage-happy eyes on Jessica Sennett’s “cheese grotto” — a segmented wooden storage container that allows for air circulation around your precious block of cheddar — while still preserving it and protecting it from the elements. Does one need a special jewel box for cheese? Probably not. Is this the perfect gift for the turophile in your life? Absolutely.

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Jessica Sennett Cheese Grotto, $, available at Terrain

Starlite Motel in Woodstock

The Val-pal(s): You and your cabin-fever suffering spouse

Why They’ll Love It: While this is certainly a tough year for travel, you and your honey need a change of scenery — preferably a romantic one. Airbnb is full of beautiful, intimate lodgings boasting enhanced cleaning procedures that you can search by proximity to narrow down car-accessible destinations. We love the vintage vibes at the restored Starlite Motel in upstate New York, but if that’s not your speed, check out these 10 romantic Airbnb destinations.

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Airbnb Starlite Motel, $, available at Airbnb

GlowUp Mask With Apple & Hibiscus

The Giftee: The clean-beauty obsessed co-worker (and your remote Secret Santa this year)

The Rationale: Your clean-beauty, clean-diet co-worker will really appreciate this miniature luxury: face mask infused with apple and hibiscus to brighten up skin.

Pholk Glowup Mask With Apple and Hibiscus, $, available at Pholk

Areaware Little Puzzle Thing

The Giftee: Your TikTok-obsessed nephew with a pretty short attention span

The Rationale: Puzzles make a great gift this year, but we don’t all have the patience to complete an entire one. Luckily, we found a mini-masterpiece can be completed between scrolls.

Areaware Little Puzzle Thing (Papaya), $, available at Cara Cara

Spicewalla 18-Pack Kitchen Essentials Set

The Giftee: Your dedicated, “captain-of-the-Pismo-Beach-disaster-relief” bud

The Rationale: This North Caroline-based spice brand launched a capsule collection in conjunction with No Kid Hungry, a nonprofit organization that is working to end child hunger in America by ensuring that children get the healthy food they need every day to thrive. The 18-pack of spices including everything from rosemary to Kashmiri chili powder will add flavor to anyone’s kitchen set up.

Spicewalla 18 Pack Kitchen Essentials, $, available at Spicewalla

Mother Earth’s Plantasia Limited LP

The Giftee: The friend who is about to be completely outnumbered by their plants

The Rationale: If entering your plant-happy bud’s apartment is like walking into an actual greenhouse, then there’s no sense in getting them another potted item — seriously, where’s it going to go?! What this person might trip out over is this 1976 cult-favorite record from Mort Garson, Mother Earth’s Plantasia. This exclusive vinyl cut features a begonia splatter and offers plenty of warm earth music for plants and the people that love them.

Mort Garson Mother Earth’s Plantasia Limited LP, $, available at Urban Outfitters

Brightland Awake Olive Oil

The Giftee: Your Bon Appetit-subscribing, Great British Bake-Off-watching roommate

The Rationale: She’s on top of every food trend and is a student of instructional, feel-good cooking and baking shows. Wow her with a premium olive oil that’s both aesthetically pleasing and delicious. (Plus you get to use it, too!)

Brightland Awake Olive Oil, $, available at Brightland

Monsieur Lenny Neon Turtleneck Dog Sweater

The Giftee: Your mom, who really and truly doesn’t want any gifts this year — but loves that damn dog

The Rationale: When you’re getting completely stonewalled by a loved one insisting that they don’t need any presents this holiday season, you can either, a.) take their word for it, or b.) go for their Achilles Heel — Fido. This irresistibly cute neon color-blocked turtie will look too cute on their furry friend and will circumvent any naysaying. Or you can go the truly original and personalized route, and order her custom gift wrap with the family dog’s face on it so Spot can be the star of all the gifting this year!

Monsieur Lenny Neon Turtleneck Dog Sweater, $, available at Etsy

Verloop Albers Checkerboard Throw Blanket

The Giftee: Your color-happy, more-is-more aunt

The Rationale: Your closest aunt has always been a maximalist when it comes to color. While you were slightly distracted by her magenta ensembles and “funky” eyeglasses in middle school, you now appreciate her fearlessness when it comes to hue. She’ll adore this cozy, color-blocked checkerboard blanket, with an array of shades that clash just so.

Verloop Albers Checkerboard Throw Blanket, $, available at Nordstrom

Omsom East Asian Sampler

The Giftee: Your dad, who’s been experimenting in the kitchen of late (and also doesn’t want you to spend much money on him!)

The Rationale: The extreme flavor-chaser in your life is always on the hunt for far-flung spices and exotic seasonings to push the boundaries of their kitchen know-how. This sample box of six East Asian starter sauces — including Japanese yuzu misoyaki, Korean spicy bulgogi, and Chinese mala makes whipping up a complicated dish a snap and it’s a pleasing gift that won’t break the bank.

Omsom East Asian Sampler, $, available at Omsom

Kosasport LipFuel

The Giftee: Your try-anything-once dog-walker

The Rationale: Whether it’s oil-pulling, facial yoga, or adaptogenic herbs, this person is always on the next woo-woo wellness-treatment tip. Satisfy their alterna-medicinal tendencies with this luxurious, CBD-infused lip balm.

Kosasport LipFuel, $, available at Kosas

Vahdam India Seasons Of Tea Duo

The Giftee: Your boss who you really like and want to send a little something to but don’t want to spend too much because it would seem sort of weird and ass-kissy plus you’ve got so many other people on your list.

The Rationale: This duo is from quality tea company Vahdam India (a favorite of Oprah’s — ever heard of her?) and comes in a box so pretty it looks like a gift on arrival.

Vahdam Seasons Of Tea – 2 Tin Caddy, $, available at Vahdam

Aquarian Thoughts Gold Bead Hammered Stacking Ring

The Giftee: Your stack-laden sister

The Rationale: While it’s tough to guess her style, you know that your magpie sister loves to pile on the jewels. This slim band is a petite and affordable option that will complement whatever else she has in the mix that day.

Aquarian Thoughts Hammered Bead Stacking Ring, $, available at Etsy

Ichendorf Milano Tute Champagne Flute

The Giftee: Your design-obsessed brother-in-law with the object-filled apartment

The Rationale: How does he do it? From a perfectly-preserved salmon-colored mid-century sofa to the glossy, spotless teak dining table; his studio is out of the pages of a fancy design book. Only the most speshy decor is allowed in his pristinely appointed, museum-like space, but we think these scalloped champagne glasses will satisfy his exacting taste.

Ichendorf Milano Tutu Champagne Flute, $, available at Coming Soon

DASH My Pint Ice Cream Maker

The Giftee: Your DIY-or-die brother

The Rationale: Why buy something when you can make it? Your dear frère lives by this adage and has a loft full of custom-built furniture and ad-hoc renovations to prove it. While you’re going to leave to lumber-related gifts to his equally handy partner, you know he will get a kick out of this easy-to-use ice cream-maker — perfect for preparing frozen desserts, one pint at a time.

Dash My Pint Ice Cream Maker, $, available at Bed Bath & Beyond

Bake Me A Wish Brownie Sampler

The Giftee: Your tutor / your kid’s tutor

The Rationale: In addition to a generous tip, send your hard-working helper the gift of delectable baked goods. In addition to brownies, you can send cheesecakes, cupcakes, giant cakes, traditional cakes, baskets, towers, and pies. Plus, 5% off all purchases goes to Bake Me A Wish’s Small Business Empowerment Fund.

Bake Me A Wish Gourmet Brownie Sampler, $, available at Bake Me A Wish

Matty Matheson: Home Style Cookery

The Giftee: Your suddenly kitchen-happy long-distance bestie

The Rationale: You both lived on packet ramen and jumbo slices in college, but when quarantine hit, she went Ina Garten on you, whipping up perfectly plated, Instagram-ready meals and spending days perfecting her sourdough. She’ll appreciate working her way through Matty Matheson’s comprehensive, easy-to-use, and delicious cookbook, which covers everything like basics (bone broth) to more complicated dishes.

Matty Matheson “Home Style Cookery”, $, available at Amazon

MoMA Two-in-One Chess & Checkers Set

The Giftee: Your sister-in-law who just gleefully powered through The Queens Gambit

The Rationale: This artful set from the Museum of Modern Art will fulfill your sister-in-law’s realized dream of learning to master chess, as well as her new appreciation for aesthetically pleasing pattern play and Queens Gambit-style retro flare.

MoMA Two-in-One Chess & Checkers Set, $, available at 2Modern

Bonne Maison Striped Socks

The Giftee: Me! (Emily Ruane, Refinery29’s shopping team fashion writer)

The Rationale: As a sock person from way back, I’m always on the hunt for a cool, well-made pair to complement my preferred footwear, which includes an assortment of sneakers, loafers, and of course, CLOGS. This luxe pair from French brand Bonne Maison has a beautiful mix of muted tones that will go with many a ’fit.

Bonne Maison Striped Socks, $, available at Roztayger

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